The author of this book was adopted as a baby. He indicates it is ok to be adopted and have questions and it is ok to ask the questions you have.
The Vermont Consortium for Adoption and Guardianship
http://www.vtadoption.org
14 North Main Street, Suite 3004http://www.vtadoption.org
Barre, VT, 05641
USA
(802) 622-3230